tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12452759.post7656832368535843488..comments2024-03-22T07:12:47.560-07:00Comments on Pitchpull: Gone X2Greybeardhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11919862790973521778noreply@blogger.comBlogger12125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12452759.post-62517682302671220932009-02-05T21:16:00.000-08:002009-02-05T21:16:00.000-08:00Oh SweetPea - I am so incredibly sorry. My heart a...Oh SweetPea - I am so incredibly sorry. My heart aches for you and your sweet Sara Jean.texasnanahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06264994624436727571noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12452759.post-91649204757853119222009-02-05T07:10:00.000-08:002009-02-05T07:10:00.000-08:00Thanks everyone. I do appreciate your kind thought...Thanks everyone. I do appreciate your kind thoughts. <BR/>I think the lack of facts about what really happened here is what hurts so badly. There's really been no closure for us.<BR/>When something like this happens in our lives we always wonder, "Why didn't I see this coming? What could I have done to prevent it?"<BR/>Guilt and self-blame...<BR/>Are we naturally gluttons for punishment?Greybeardhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11919862790973521778noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12452759.post-26231147509973371822009-02-04T18:07:00.000-08:002009-02-04T18:07:00.000-08:00I'm so sorry Greybeard. I know you will struggle ...I'm so sorry Greybeard. I know you will struggle for answers and sadly, there will likely be none.<BR/><BR/>I think about our neighbor, who nearly two years ago wrote out letters to his wife and two grown sons and then shot himself in the heart. It was unimaginable, especially given that he had 6 grandkids that loved him and will carry that pain with them for years.<BR/><BR/>I know we struggled trying to fathom how he could do that and while we liked him, we had not become friends socially, yet we cried over the loss and still do when we look over at his house and can not imagine what must have been going through his head to take such a drastic, final and yes, selfish decision. <BR/><BR/>I wish you and your wife peace and hope you can remember the good times when you are searching your hearts for answers.Ritahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03121530659338322937noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12452759.post-55730835763512827162009-02-04T11:53:00.000-08:002009-02-04T11:53:00.000-08:00That is horrible and when I hear about such, even ...That is horrible and when I hear about such, even with people I don't know, I always wonder too but so often there is no answer. A terrible story and I guess tells us how much people keep bottled inside from even those nearest to them. So sad. We are hearing of more of it but is it more or just we hear of it more often?Rain Trueaxhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07994628226501093880noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12452759.post-42905588318801933012009-02-04T09:51:00.000-08:002009-02-04T09:51:00.000-08:00Very sorry to hear. My heart goes out to you and ...Very sorry to hear. My heart goes out to you and everyone affected by the violent, incomprehensible end of two lives.<BR/><BR/>--SarahAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12452759.post-20372685814165062772009-02-04T08:56:00.000-08:002009-02-04T08:56:00.000-08:00Not too long ago I received news that the 30 somet...Not too long ago I received news that the 30 something son of a good friend was found, by his wife, hanging in the spare bedroom. Also no indications of why. This has lead me to research the very bewildering realm of "Suicide Survivors". <BR/><BR/>I still don't understand, but I know that it is important to look after each other.<BR/><BR/>Take care.nec Timidehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03017143602023726206noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12452759.post-50410739785457404652009-02-04T07:53:00.000-08:002009-02-04T07:53:00.000-08:00Our thoughts and prayers are with you, Sara Jean, ...Our thoughts and prayers are with you, Sara Jean, and their daughter.<BR/><BR/>Words ... fail me.caryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01122159049927843800noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12452759.post-54649613634110168072009-02-04T06:41:00.000-08:002009-02-04T06:41:00.000-08:00I too am dealing with death by suicide, but only x...I too am dealing with death by suicide, but only x1. My friend was an amazing man and will also be missed. My pain resides in the fact that those left behind who called him "friend" have judged him, not remembering the good he did, his generosity or the lives he saved.<BR/><BR/>No matter the circumstance, may we always remember the good and why we continue to love them.<BR/><BR/>My thoughts are with you . . .emilyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15358393122770948789noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12452759.post-49471025286366513782009-02-03T22:00:00.000-08:002009-02-03T22:00:00.000-08:00So shocking. so sorry....AndreaSo shocking. so sorry....<BR/><BR/>AndreaAndrea Shea Kinghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07096392660279770757noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12452759.post-31111340079890241762009-02-03T17:18:00.000-08:002009-02-03T17:18:00.000-08:00GBI am so sorry for you and their daughter's loss....GB<BR/><BR/>I am so sorry for you and their daughter's loss. With or without answers the pain is so large.<BR/><BR/>No one knows why these things happen. I don't know if there are answers. But, I will pray for all of you involved.the golden horsehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01997072300287533624noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12452759.post-17641196096556357862009-02-03T16:39:00.000-08:002009-02-03T16:39:00.000-08:00Greybeard, I'm so sorry.I have no words of my own ...Greybeard, I'm so sorry.<BR/><BR/>I have no words of my own to offer, my thoughts exactly mirror CJ's words.<BR/><BR/>You're all in my prayers.Epijunkyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11095408875283368443noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12452759.post-86576011773590853982009-02-03T14:49:00.000-08:002009-02-03T14:49:00.000-08:00Oh no.How terribly sad for everyone envolved. The...Oh no.<BR/><BR/>How terribly sad for everyone envolved. <BR/><BR/>There is no understanding such a tragedy, is there? Even if you learn the reasons behind it, you still won't understand it. <BR/><BR/>You're in my prayers, my friend.<BR/><BR/>cjhCJhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07798965643027904154noreply@blogger.com